By its very nature, conflict is a process of polarization and receding opportunity. When two people or parties are in conflict, they characteristically move to opposite sides of an issue. They fortify their position by overstating their case, creating further distance between themselves. As the conflict escalates, they become more resolute in defending their position and destroying that of their opponent process of simplification. We ignore the reasons, justifications, viewpoints and concerns of the other side. We dismiss the texture and meaning of their statements, and we are blind to the shortcomings of our own. They are wrong and we are right.
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